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jeffc
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Ok here's the situation, I was at a party on saturday night, I was about to make out with a girl, I went to urinate in a bush first. Finshed urinating, wiped my hands on the ground, went bak to her proceeded to make out. She began to give me a hand job, she put her hand down my pants and did this for about 2 minutes at the most ,I did not ejaculate or precum, i was no where near this. I then put my hand down her pants and fingered her about 1cm deep in her vagina, Did this for only very briefly about a minute. I am worried that she may be able to get pregnant because I did not wash my hands after touching my penis.
Some aditional info is that I masterbated that morning and took a shower that evening before the party. Please help

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Milke
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Urine will not impregnate a girl, nor will touching a penis. Semen and pre-ejaculate can and will, but I really don't think there's any pregnancy risk here. Hpowever, I'd certainly recommend using actual bathrooms whenever possible, and always washing your hands before performing manual sex (fingering, hand job) on anyone so you don't give them an infection from any germs you may have picked up over the course of your day.
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logic_grrl
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Unprotected manual sex can also transmit certain STDs, so I recommend you check out A Quickie STD/STI Risk Assessment and Safe, Sound & Sexy A Safer Sex How-To.
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jeffc
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Though wouldnt it be possible for cum or precum from that morning to still be on my penis and then tranfered to my hand when i touched my penis?
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lemming
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Your hand is not a particularly nourishing or welcoming environment for sperm, which can live outside of such environment for about 20 minutes.

This is not to say that semen left out for an hour wouldn't impregnate a girl; I'm just saying that the risk of pregnancy from semen being on your hand all day is really nearly nil. This is not a pregnancy risk.

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jeffc
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How long can sperm or pre cum live on your penis? And does urinating kill them quicker?

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Gumdrop Girl
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urinating can flush out sperm, but it might not kill all of them. really, if you use a condom, none of this will even be an issue. get a box of condoms and always put one on as soon as you get hard. don't start fooling around first and give yourself opportunities to have an accident.

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