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If me and my boyfriend were making out and his penis touched like my thigh or the side of my vagina while i was wearing underwear could i get pregnant? I know for sure he didnt ejaculate but theres obviously the possibility of pre-ejaculate. so what are the chances?
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Sam W
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Hi questions,
Can you please take a look at this thread? I think it will answer your question
http://www.scarleteen.com/cgi-bin/forum/ultimatebb.cgi?/ubb/get_topic/f/10/t/002611.html#000000

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Heather
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When either of those fluids can't have direct contact with your genitals, it doesn't matter if either of them were around. Your thigh is not your vulva, and underpants or other clothing mean those fluids can't have direct contact.

Check it out:
Human Reproduction: A Seafarer's Guide
Can I Get Pregnant, or Get or Pass On an STI From That?

[Smile]

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So there is still not a chance that the pre-ejaculate could move from the side and into my vagina?
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Plus my underwear couldve been moved over. I was kind of in the moment so i cant be completely sure of what happened
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Well, we weren't there at all, so we clearly can't know.

But did you look at those pieces I gave you to show what levels of risk any of this can -- and can't -- present? Those are the answers, with what we can know.

But it sounds to me like you are feeling pretty freaked by this, and while we can't do anything about past actions like this, we can about future ones. So, how about in the future, with things like this, you either ask your boyfriend to keep his pants on or wear a condom?

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Yes i did read them thanks and it seems there is a risk when theres direct contact, its just in this case i wasnt sure if that would be considered direct contact. And yes we will definitely do this for sure
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It would not be. Figure it is like this: if someone has a mask over their mouth, they can't directly touch their mouth, all they can directly touch is the mask. Same deal here. [Smile]

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Ok thank you for your help [Smile]
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