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uhohhelpme
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Okay so this girl and I were messing around and i accidentally touched the tip of my penis with my left hand (pretty sure). It was a little bit wet with Precum. I wiped it off and made a conscious effort to not use my left hand when fingering her, however I am not completely sure. She took an EC pill about 1.5 days after just to be safe. Should I be concerned?
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Did you have the chance to look at the link I sent you previously? If not, here it is, again: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/14/t/000372.html

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uhohhelpme
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Yes I did. It was quite helpful. We are still scared though and were just hoping you might have a few more words to share?
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Sam W
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Glad you found the article helpful. In terms of reassuring you about the level of risk, we don't really have anything to add beyond what you read there. Or were you thinking more in terms of us providing some info to help you and your girlfriend gauge the risks of various sexual behaviors so that you can avoid feeling stressed in the future?
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uhohhelpme
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I guess what I just wanted to understand the link a little better...
To be more clear, if there was any possible contact with/transfer of pre-ejaculate via hands, and she took Plan B about 40 hours after as a precaution the concern is minimal?

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Sam W
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The concern is zero. We take fluids into account when we write up risks, so manual sex does not pose a pregnancy risk even if there was possible contact with pre-cum
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uhohhelpme
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Okay thank you for your help. If I have any further questions regarding the same matter should I post them here?
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Absolutely.

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Molias
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You can either add to this thread or start a new one for a new topic.

Also remember that for specific questions you can often find answers by doing a search on our main site!

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unknoshi
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i know this has been answered many times i just want to get clarification in my situation i gave him a handjob then my bf fingered me there wasnt any noticeable sperm or anything im sure he wiped it off but im still extremely scared and my period is a week late and my father has told me that ive been gaining weight im just frekin out right now [Eek!] [Frown]
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Sam W
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Hi unkoshi,

Can you please start a separate thread for your question?

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