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Booknerd55
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I've been on birth control for nearly 5 months now. I was originally on Alesse 28, and after my 3 months were up, I was switched to Alysena 28 for my next 3 months. (4,5,6). On January 8th or 9th, my normal period finished (usually about 4-6 days in length). On January 11th, my boyfriend fingered me with his left hand, I eventually gave him a bit of a hand job but he didn't cum, just had a bit of pre-cum on my hands and he would have touched some when he put his penis back in his pants. A few minutes later, he fingered me with his right hand, which was the hand that he would have had precum on. He didn't put the finger in immediately after having a small bit of precum, he also touched his jacket and jeans.

I was on my white placebo pills at the time of this, and I take my pills at 6am on weekdays, when I am awake for school, and I usually take my pills on weekends around 9-10am, when I wake up. I know that you are supposed to take them at the same time every day. A few days ago, my boobs began to hurt and felt sore, like they generally do near my period, and I felt bloated, but it was still about 2 weeks before my expected period and I was on my active pills. Today, I felt some cramping at school, and when I went home, I found some slight red/pink stuff in my underwear. I have about 5 active pills left before I start my placebos again, this is my 5th month on the pill, the pills I changed to are just the generic brand of birth control by the way. I have also been feeling very tired lately. The soreness in my boobs appears to have left about 2 days ago, the cramping and red/pink blood came today.

Is it likely that I am pregnant? I have never ever missed taking a pill before and am still a virgin, and so is my boyfriend. We are 18 by the way, and I have no interest in having children anytime soon. Please help. I am still on my active birth control days , and have never missed a period in my 7 years of having them.

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Sam W
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Hi booknerd,

Have you taken a look at this article yet?

http://www.scarleteen.com/cgi-bin/forum/ultimatebb.cgi?/ubb/get_topic/f/10/t/002611.html#000000

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Thank you. I have also read other articles similar to that one in the recent days on this site, and was starting to feel less worried about it, until the red/pink discharge showed up today, and the sore boobs the other day, since I am still on my active pills and am not expecting a period for 6-7 days. What could these be from? I only had a "breakthrough" bleeding my first month of the pill, when it was still Alesse 28, before I was changed to Alysena 28 (same thing, just generic brand).
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Isn't pink/red discharge implantation bleeding?
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Sam W
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Even on BC pills, it is possible to have your cycle vary and have your period come a little early (it is also possible to have spotting while on the pill). So, one of those two options is likely what is happening here.

And, on top of that, the activity you did carried no risk.

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Thank you so much. I feel relieved to have asked about it here, this is a great website.
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You're very welcome [Smile]
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