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Anne Gotham
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Hi i have a question.
My bf and i today were messing around. He was naked, and i was wearing jeans. However, he managed to get some ejaculate precum or cum right on my jeans while we were rubbing. My jeans were actually wet from sitting on the grass, so does this pose a risk? Would the fluids absorb and help the sperm swim?

Im confused because ive heard many things on the internet that sweat, or your pants wet can help the semen seep through. In my case i was wet from the moisture of the grass and his fluids.

Any ideas?

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nixieGurl
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Hi Anne Gotham,

From the situation that you described there is not a pregnancy risk here. Semen can't swim or seep through material this way even if it is damp or wet, just as we don't get pregnant from swimming in a pool at the same time as a man.

Here is an article which may help you out with determining pregnancy risks:

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/pregnancy_scared

Hope this helps! [Smile]

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Anne Gotham
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Oh okay awesome thanks!Because ive had alot of pregnancy scares reffering to dry humping (while we are both wearing clothes) but in this case he was bare naked. So thats why i was concerned.

So short story short, even though some of his fluids spilled on my jeans near my vulva,i have no reason to worry here? [Smile]

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nixieGurl
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Yup, No need to worry in this case [Smile]
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Anne Gotham
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Okay thanks i feel much better [Smile]

But out of curiousity why cant semen swim through clothing though?
Isnt the pores on the clothes big enough? Especially cotton?

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nixieGurl
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This is a fantastic blog entry from one of our volunteers which I think you will find really helpful in answering those questions. I know there are so many myths around about sperm's magic abilities but they really are not as resourceful as often given credit for [Razz] So maybe have a read of this:

http://www.scarleteen.com/blog/patricia_h/2013/03/21/whos_afraid_of_sperm_cells

Hope this helps!

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Anne Gotham
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haha yes i remember this article, i read this before!
Thanks so much, your really helpful [Smile]

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Not a problem, that's what we are here for!
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Anne Gotham
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Im still a little confused though. I just talked to my friend and she told me that since my jeans were wet, the semen could seep through :/ since they are both fluids.

She said it was also riskier since he was naked

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Robin Lee
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Hi Anne,

You absolutely get to choose what sources of information you believe. [Smile] We've given you fact-based information and it's up to you what you do with that. [Smile]

http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/14/t/000371.html

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