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Guera11
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Hi, I have a question, I haven't been able to talk to anyone about this, and I'm a bit worried.
My husband and I had a bit of a rough time with sex when we first got married because it would hurt me, then we had our 1st baby and sex seemed to be great! But then one day about 2 months ago he was going down on me, and since he has braces, I dont know if it was his teeth or his braces, but I felt uncomfortable and pain, and told him to stop. Ever since that day I haven't let him go down on me anymore because I was mad, but the two times that we have tried to have sex I've felt very little pleasure. And even when I tried masturbating, I felt as if I couldn't feel/find my clitoris, and now I'm worried, because I used to enjoy sex and loved oral sex and the feeling, and now I'm afraid that he sucked so hard or that his teeth or braces might of done permanent damage to my clitoris. Please help! [Confused]

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It's unlikely that he did permanent damage to your clitoris, even if he did scratch it with his braces. But if you want to be extra sure, you can make an appointment with your gynecologist to discuss your concerns.

You say you were mad at your partner about what happened. Did you discuss your feelings with him? Do you still feel upset? It sounds me like psychological factors (feeling resentment, being afraid of pain) play a bigger role here than any injuries you may have sustained.

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Guera11
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I discussed my feelings with him, and he understood a bit, but he tried making it about him and him not being able to please me anymore and I told him it wasn't him, and it bothered me that he couldn't understand that I felt as if the problem was with me

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So it sounds like some more conversation is in order so the two of you can work through both of your feelings around this together.

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Thank you

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Guera

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