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I was looking for a top yesterday, and I couldn't find it.
My mother's clothes and Mine are often mixed up, so I went to look in her drawers

I found something unexpected...
A collection of porn. Around forty DVDs
A whole lot, with pictures on the DVD covers.
I am fourteen, and my mother is around fifty. I don't know WHEN she watched it, but I just hope that it was a long time ago and not recently.
I also found her drinking whiskey before bed, and I am afraid she might be alchoholic. I have heard the clinks of her whiskey flask every night (We sleep in the same room), and I really want her to stop

I feel scared of her, and it's not a good feeling.
I want to tell her, but she's the typical Asian parent, strict all the time..
So I don't know of telling her is a good idea

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Robin Lee
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HI Primmypunpun,

It can be pretty scary and uncomfortable when we learn things about our parents that we didn't know before, and that we don't particularly want to know.

Can you talk a little more about what scares you about your Mom?

I do have a few thoughts for you based on what you've said here.

Your mother has a sexuality, just like you have a sexuality even if you don't do anything to actively express it right now. Watching porn is, or may have been in the past, a way for your mother to express her sexuality. It sounds like this makes you uncomfortable though, and we can definitely talk more about that.


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