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Hello, staff!

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a couple of weeks now, and we keep encountering the same problem. I am taller than he is, and he is not particularly well-endowed (though certainly within the realm of average). We have tried missionary and girl on top, and both times it's difficult to keep his penis from slipping out. It's frustrating for the both of us because we will be in the middle of feeling good and then have to pause to put it back in.

Is this a problem with positions, or something else? Can you recommend any ways to keep this from happening?

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Sex, whether it involves penetration or not, is all about what feels good between the people engaging in it. So maybe one position doesn't work for you, but that's fine. Just experiment with what makes both of you feel good and go from there.

Sex isn't going to be perfect or magical or flawless. It's messy and silly and sometimes things will happen, and things will slip somewhere, and that's ok. Having a sense of humor and a willingness to try new things is really essential to happy, healthy sexuality.

Hey folks, my name is Andrew and I was a mod here for awhile a couple years ago. I'll be here for a couple weeks while Heather is out and the site is even more short-staffed than usual

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