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cannavaro
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My gf and I always practice safe sex. We decided to have sex without condom for the next time.

Our question is when will be the best time for us to have unprotected sex with a lowest possibility or chance of getting her pregnant? as I might cum inside her? My gf told me that 3 days before or after her period will be the best time, is this info accurate? She got it from her friend who used to have sex in such way and did not get pregnant.

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Does your girlfriend chart her cycles by taking her basal temperature and checking her cervical mucus daily? Has she been doing so for a good while?

That is the only reliable way for her to be able to predict her fertile days with any accuracy.

If she's not doing that, it's really hard to make any predictions about her cycle.

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I don't think she does that. Her period is consistent, every 26th of each month.
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Well, if she's not doing that, there really is no way to predict her ovulation time with any accuracy, and going without any form of protection would pose a high risk of pregnancy.

If you absolutely want to go without condoms, your girlfriend will either need to start charting her periods in the way I described above, or you'll need to look into hormonal methods of birth control.

Whatever you do, you will also want to get tested for STIs before you ditch condoms.

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