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MiikiieBabiie
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ok so last nite... i was in my room.. and i aint had sex for about 7-8months... so uno i got dat lil.... uno... anyways so i started watchin porn...and i started fingerin my seld... everything was fine then i got a dildo...(5cmwide) i was kinda thick so it didnt go in... then i forced it alil bit it when in but when i took it out there was blood all over it and all over the place...i bleed for bout 2mins continuasly.... wiped myself wen it stoped when for a shower. wen i went to urinate it didnt sting or hurt or nuttin... so i dunno wots happending, tonight i done it again but it was a really small 1 (2,8 cm wide..)... it didnt hurt but i was bleeding again not as much just a bit.. what is it? has something happend...? do i need to go doctors? why did i bleed? should i be scared? how long cant i have sex for? :/

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Stephanie_1
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The best rule of any type of sex is that if something's not working right then for any reason you don't want to force it. Bleeding can occur when you're not fully relaxed and aroused before entry, so you want to be making sure in the future you're fully relaxed and spending plenty of time with other types of stimulation before entry. Also? A good water-based lubricant can help here too.

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MiikiieBabiie
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ok so what does that mean... i mean i no wot it means but i how long can i not have sex for... im so confused cuz i was proper wet... and i wet the dildo properly before i put it in.... i think i was bleeding cuz i forced it in... but last nite i ddnt force it in or nothing... it was just normal and i started bleeding (i was wet last nite aswell) ... how long can i not have sex for so i dnt bleed cuz no1 like blood on there penuis.?

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Stephanie_1
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If you're not sore, then it may not be a tear. More likely you just weren't totally ready (although there may be a small tear from pushing too hard the first time). So you may try entry after orgasm and see if it makes a difference. If not, then take a few days to make sure if there are small tears they can heal.

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MiikiieBabiie
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so its nothing big like dangerous? like i dnt need to be scared and that right? :)

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Nope, no need to get all worried here.

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