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if you put a glove on the penis n put your pants on as well or cover it with a shirt could precum leak through ( gloves / cloth and underwear and pants ) and get you pregnant and if you were to touch you precum (not like alot or i dont even know if at all) and rubbed near the vaginal area and the girl hand underwear and tights on could she get pregnant? sorry iknow these are stupid questions but i just would lik to no
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Did you get a start by reading this piece first: Pregnancy Scared?
It explains pretty clearly what does and does not present real risks of pregnancy.
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Also, I just looked at your post history. It sounds clearly like you just really don't feel comfortable with the kind of contact you have been having. We've given you answers around this kind of question before, but obviously, you still feel worried.
Have you thought about stepping away from this kind of contact until it all feels less scary for you?
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yes but sometimes its hard , i know it can be really annoying . And sometimes i just need to be reinforcement Posts: 42 | From: u.s | Registered: Apr 2011
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I didn't ask because I was annoyed, I asked because you seem to be in a pattern of feeling scared and freaked out, which I imagine doesn't feel good for you.
For sure, sometimes it's hard to not do things we want but don't feel ready for. However, making that choice is part of taking care of ourselves well and making sexual choices that are right for us.
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Yes i understand thank you but if its not too much to ask for maybe i get an answer to the questions and i'll try my best to stop till im ready and thank you very much
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excuse me ? sorry im very annoying when it comes to this , but i would like have a backup for my feelings when i get worried
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Please don't bump your posts unless it has been more than 24 hours unanswered - we are mostly volunteers here and we ask that you be patient.
As Heather said, what you described does not present a viable risk of pregnancy. For a real pregnancy risk to occur, there needs to be penis - vagina/vulva contact and/or semen to vagina/vulva contact. What you are describing here does not fit that definition.
I also want to second what Heather suggested about taking a step back from sexual activity until you feel more comfortable and less anxious. Part of what we promote here is healthy sexual activity for people who are wanting, consenting and enjoying it. It isn't so much fun when you are a bundle of stress afterward, is it?
Have you ever been in counseling or seen a therapist before?
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