Im still a virgin and yesterday was my first time getting fingered. Even though i was uncomfortable at first and my body tensed up when he went deeper i cant say it hurt; i kno he is very experienced and should kno wat he iz doin but im still wondering was he doing it right
Hi, Nitro Panda, welcome to Scarleteen! Whether someone is doing something sexual "right" or not depends entirely on what works for the two of you; what sensations you enjoy, etc. So if what he was doing was uncomfortable for you, it doesn't matter how much experience he has had -- you should tell him that it was uncomfortable for you. You should both just be doing things that you both enjoy and find pleasurable, that is the only "right" way to do things; that is, after all, what sex is all about
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