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MiikiieBabiie
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. OK my boyfriend wants to finger me... Ive had a shower before and for curiosity i sort of done it but not for pleasure... then it still smelt like in the inside (might sound bit wird or summink but it had to be done) is it ment to smell like that?
and yea i did wash properly :/

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Pumpkin_Pie
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Hi Miikie

Can I ask, you say your boyfriend wants to "finger" you (the term we would use is manual sex but whatever you're comfortable with!) - what do you want? Do you feel you're ready for that level of sexual intimacy with your boyfriend?

Why don't you take a quick look at this article:

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/ready_or_not_the_scarleteen_sex_readiness_checklist

Do you mean that your vagina smelled? Is it an unpleasant smell? Vaginas have their own smell but it's not unpleasant. An unpleasant, cheesy or fishy odour could be a sign that something like a yeast infection is occurring. Could you clarify exactly what you mean?

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MiikiieBabiie
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Well i dont know to be honest i mean we have been together for 5months.... and i like him... quite abit... ive tossed him off... and yea i kind of think its time to move on... and i think im ready since it will be my first time.

i dont know... its a wierd smell... it can be unplesent smell aswell.... and yes i think i have a water infection thing... because i go to the toilet alot but its doesnt hurt me or it doesnt sting when i wee...

ive got another question are you supposed to wash inside your vagina not just around like your clituros and your lips and inside of lips and that... are you supposed to wash inside the hole??

hope that makes sence.
thank u [Smile]

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Pumpkin_Pie
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Hi Miikiie,

You don't need to wash inside your vagina - it's got a balance of bacteria in there that's really sensitive to any kind of soaps. It'll clean itself when it needs to so unless there's something up then you have no need to clean it.

If there is an unpleasant smell then you should go to your doc in case there's an infection going on.

Hope that helps!
Rebecca

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MiikiieBabiie
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Ok thank you for the advice? [Smile]

and what about my boyfriend fingering me? what do i do with that...

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Well, again, is this something YOU want to do and feel comfortable with?

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MiikiieBabiie
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Yea. i think its time to move on and try different things ... but if i have something go on down there and if its smells dont feel comfortable....

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Karybu
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Is it something you WANT to do though? Feeling like it's "time to move on" isn't a good reason to try any sexual activity if you don't really feel comfortable with it.

If you're concerned about whether your discharge is normal in terms of smell, that's always something you can ask a healthcare provider about.

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