So I've been on BCPs for about 9 months now. I am always on time and never miss a pill. But my boyfriend and I always use condoms as well. Tonight we had sex. And he was wearing a condom. He finished inside me. But when he pulled out the condom stayed in. We pulled the condom out. But now he's freaking out. I did the water test and there were no holes in it whatsoever. And I take my bcp like clockwork. So I'm trying to relive some of his worries. So I'm hoping maybe you guys reinforcing it will help.
Since you have been taking your pills as you should, you should Not worry about getting pregnant. If he has any more questions or concerns, let him know that he is more than welcome to join us here.
Thank you so much Oddly enough my boyfriend is also named Dan haha. He's just a little worried about pregnancy. He had a girl play the whole I'm pregnant game trying to get him to stay a couple years back and that has made him worry a lot more than usual.
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Interesting coincidence with the names. I hope I helped him to calm down. I can understand why he would be extra concerned; I would also suggest continuing to talk with him and reassure him that you are a different person from that other girl. Good communication is always a help towards a good relationship.
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