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Hot Air Pants
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So me and my girlfriend were home alone yesterday and I came all over the place. After cleaning it up, I fingered her. Today she was saying she was bleeding down there and she didn't know why. She just had her period like a week ago. She's also on birth control to regulate her period. But like a month ago she had a surgery to remove her hymen. I'm wondering if the blood is just from the surgery and me fingering her possibly stretching it out. Or is she pregnant? I'm pretty worried. Help.
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Heather
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It's actually pretty easy to give a woman a scrape with fingering if you mean fingers inside her vagina. Were you using a lubricant? Wearing latex gloves? If not gloves, were your nails trimmed and filed? Were you sure to be very gentle?

If you weren't doing even one of those things, an abrasion can happen which could have caused the bleeding.

Per her hymenectomy, what instructions did her doctor give her about when it was okay for her to have any kind of vaginal sex, including fingering? Did you all do this before whatever date s/he said it was okay to?

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The doctor, as far as me and her know, did not give us a specific date that anything like this would be okay. But my main concern here was pregnancy. Could that mean she is pregnant because I came minutes before. Or is that even possible?
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