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Psyched_out
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Ok so I'm 17 and male and have a girlfriend that I am deeply in love with and have been with for almost 4 years. We love our sex and our sexual activities and take great pride in our abity to be amazingly in tune with each others bodies and able to push each others buttons. I am completely satisfied with everything except our sex, I cum WAY to fast in my opinion. Like 2 or 3 minutes at most on our 2nd round. Provided there was an hour of down time in between for my 'mojo' to recharge. I come here to ask for anything that would improve my longevity in the sack, inside legal means of course. I have had 2 sexual partners (one unsavory one, clean but a cheating whore, during a year a break from my current relationship for her reasons, with this girl I rocked though) I am uncircumcised and practice safe sex with a condom. I am using a different type of condom with my current gf now and am much more comfortable with her and I have a much deeper connection with her as well. I am probably going to buy thicker condoms but I don't want that to be my only option. Please help!
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SnailShells
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2-3 minutes is actually pretty average. You could always try 'edging', stopping activity during the plateau phase, rest a while, and then continue. There's really nothing to fix here.

Check these out:

Sexual Response & Orgasm: A Users Guide

Yield for Pleasure

How long will it take a boy to ejaculate?

(And we're a safe space at Scarleteen; don't use words like 'whore' here.)

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Psyched_out
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Thank you for the response. I am glad that the response was so fast! And I very sorry for having used the you you mentioned at the bottom of your post, new the site and still getting used to the rules, I assure you it will not happen again! [Smile] . Thanks again for the quick response.
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