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GUERITA1125
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OK SO HERE'S MY DEAL. DON'T LAUGH BUT I'M A VIRGIN AND 20 YEARS OLD. THE ONLY TYPE OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE I'VE HAD HAS BEEN ANAL AND MY BF HAD A CONDOM ON AND OF COURSE ORAL BUT OTHER THAN THAT NOTHING ELSE. HE DID HOWEVER TRY ONCE TO INSERT IT FROM THE THE FROM BUT IT DIDNT GO ALL THE WAY IN AND HE AS WELL HAD PROTECTION ON. I HAVEN'T BEEN DOING ANYTHING ELSE FOR ABOUT 4 MONTHS NOW AND MY VAGINA STARTED TO RELEASE SOME CLEAR LIQUID THAT SMELLS KINDA BAD BUT I'M NOT ON MY PERIOD YET. I'M SCARED TO THINK I HAVE AN INFECTION AND I WANT TO GO TO THE DOCTOR BUT I'M AFRAID THAT THE DOCTOR TELLS MY MOM I HAVE HAD SEX BECAUSE SHE WILL KILL ME. I'M A VIRGIN AND I REALLY WANT TO CURE THIS BAD ODOR. ALSO, IF I DO KEEP TRYING ANAL SEX AND HE'S PROTECTED CAN I GET PREGNANT? WHAT IF HE TRIES IT WITHOUT A CONDOM? PLESEEE HELP!!!

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Heather
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Hey, Guerita: next time you post, please unlock your caps, okay? It's very hard to read and comes off as yelling.

There's nothing funny or wrong about not being sexually active at any age. All the same, it seems that you are sexually active: anal intercourse is sex, as is attempted vaginal intercourse.

Going from anal to vaginal sex creates risks of infections. Even without an STI, bacterial infections from doing that are common.

You're a legal adult: even if you were a minor, a doctor does not have the legal right to share your private sexual health information with a parent. And since it sounds like you may have an infection that has gone a while without treatment, I'd encourage you to see your doctor ASAP.

Anal sex without condoms isn't something we suggest here because of the high risk of STIs as well as bacterial infections. As well, anal sex is not an activity without possible pregnancy risks.

If you are going to continue with anal sex and use condoms, all of those risks will be minimal. However, if your partner is going to go from your anus to your vagina, he needs to put on a new condom first to prevent infections.

Lastly, I hope that you can acknowledge that you are a sexually active person. It's often very tough for people to make sound choices and take care of their sexual health if they are denying that to themselves when it is the reality, okay?

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