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Guiltygard
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Im 13 and i masturbate. I know there is nothing wrong with masturbation. But i get a strange buzz feeling in the lower part of my body during the climax. Is this and orgasm or something else?

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A guy walks up to me and goes "big shoes, big shoes, please!"
Whats up with that?

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ErinK
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It certainly could be an orgasm, yes. Do you find that you want to stop masturbating after you experience that feeling?
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Guiltygard
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Yes i do feel as if i would like to stop after that. Although after this my penis goes less hard and starts moving to my heart beat.

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A guy walks up to me and goes "big shoes, big shoes, please!"
Whats up with that?

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Guiltygard
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Just so you do not have to post multiple posts. I havent ejaculated yet and im 13, my firneds say they have. Although i havent ejaculated i have had transparent sticky stuff come out the end of my penis.

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A guy walks up to me and goes "big shoes, big shoes, please!"
Whats up with that?

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Guiltygard
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I would also like to know if it is possible to damage yourself by masturbating fast and hard as i have no idea since im young. Is it natural to have a unsensitive inner head( bellend) i cant really feel heat difference in mine.

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A guy walks up to me and goes "big shoes, big shoes, please!"
Whats up with that?

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Leabug
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Whoa, lots of questions [Smile]

It does sound like that could be orgasm, or at least close to it.

The transparent sticky stuff is pre-ejaculate, which is secreted when a male is aroused, and is totally normal. It's also normal to not have ejaculated yet, so don't worry!

You'd have to be pretty darn hard on yourself to do any permanent damage! If you're too rough, though, you may find a bit of irritation, redness, dryness, and sensitivity, but using lubricant will help you avoid this too.

I'm a little confused as to which part of your body you're referring to in your last post though. Do you mean the bottom part of the head of your penis? Have a look at our article Man's Best Friend, it may help answer your questions.

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Lea

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Guiltygard
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Thankyou very much but where is actually possible to purchase lubricant at this age?

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A guy walks up to me and goes "big shoes, big shoes, please!"
Whats up with that?

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Guiltygard
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So like in a supermarket in a chemist?
And if so where is it usually under in the supermarket Toiletries etc or behind the chemists desk. Thanks

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A guy walks up to me and goes "big shoes, big shoes, please!"
Whats up with that?

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Guiltygard
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Also i have a thin strip of skin holding the V shape under head of the penis to the foreskin and it hurts at the moment as i think i mave have stretched it. Is it possible for the head to feel bruised or uncomfortable.

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A guy walks up to me and goes "big shoes, big shoes, please!"
Whats up with that?

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Leabug
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There is no age limit to purchase lubricant. It should be in the same aisle as condoms, probably right next to them, so whichever aisle those are in, is the one you want! (Most major drugstores will carry lubricant, so you shouldn't have too much trouble finding some.)

It's very possible that you simply stretched it a bit too far; just take it easier next time or try the lube. And yes, it's possible for the head to feel bruised if you go a bit rough.

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Lea

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ae555
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hey im 15 and i have ejaculater but i did when i was about 12. but dont feel bad cause my best friend is 14 and he just did the other week. the sticky stuff thats on the tip of your penis is a pre-cum..it cleans the passageway out so sperm can come thru i had this come out when i was about 11 but their is no age limit.

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(ae555, once again - please do not post in this area, it is for staff and volunteer response ONLY. Also, could you please remove your myspace address? We ask that users don't share personal information - this is for your and our other user's protection)

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Guiltygard
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sorry to bumb up this ancient thread but... i cant cum im 13 i've orgasmed. never even had a wet dream... is this normal or sumthing rong with my testicles.

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A guy walks up to me and goes "big shoes, big shoes, please!"
Whats up with that?

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Leabug
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It's only been a couple of months since you last asked, and the answer is still the same- it's totally normal to not have ejaculated yet at 13. (For the record, too, often people don't notice when they have wet dreams- the fluids can dry up before they wake.)

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Lea

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