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archer
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Okay so there was this guy who lay on me...today and I was fully clothed...as in I was wearing a churidar and I had my panty, my top and my kurta over me and he too was wearing a lungi or something....I know he dint come and all but even if he did is it possible for it to seep through his lungi, my bottom, my panty and to my vagina? Please reply fast and just for the record, there was never any direct penis to vagina contact as throughout I was fully clothed

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There is no way semen could get through so many layers of fabric - no risk here.

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Thank u so much I was so freaked out...I came home and noticed a small hole in my kurta, even then no risk na? And this is just for knowledge even if he was naked and I was clothed fully would u still call it a no risk?
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No, you still don't have a risk.

Sperm cannot get through several, or even just a couple, layers of clothing.

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A final question on the topic...so from what I can understand and what I know unless a man's penis comes into direct contact with a woman's vagina/genitals there's no risk at all of a pregnancy
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So if I am losing my sleep over this and worried ur telling me I am freaking out for nothing?

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archer, there is no risk. You need to stop freaking out.

You are losing sleep over nothing. There is no way in heaven or earth you have a pregnancy risk here, ok, honey?

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Thank you so much. I guess I should stop getting scared then...thanks a lot for all your help Scarleteen. I couldn't talk to any one else so the moment I was in doubt I came here and now I know I don't have to fear

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So If I understand I have no risk only because 1) I was fully clothed and 2) there was no direct penis-genital ontact?

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Yes.

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But honestly is there a chance of sperm swimming through even one layer of cloth. Because I had came toknow through awareness that sperms are little things and they can't swim through and more so find their way on their own to the vagina. Have I heard right?

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If you have maybe one layer of clothes (like, one of you is wearing undies), and it's a really thin fabric, and it is soaked in ejaculate - then yes, there might be a minimal risk.

But with several layers of fabric and no genital contact and not even any ejaculate present to begin with, there just is NO RISK.

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Hmm I get your point...I think the one thing that's to my advantage here is that I was clothed....the first two are present the third one is not too sure but I guess the very presence of no genital contact rules out any possible risk, thanks anyways [Smile]

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Thank you so much. I guess I should stop getting scared then...thanks a lot for all your help Scarleteen. I couldn't talk to any one else so the moment I was in doubt I came here and now I know I don't have to fear

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