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Crimson923
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Hi i attempted to have sex with my girlfriend 2nite. We both wanted to do it and felt we were ready for it so we went for it. I used a lubricated condom with spermicide on it just to be extra careful. Well when i went to put it in her it just wouldnt go in right i mean it would go in a little less than half way but after about a minute passed and it really didnt get anywhere i just decided to call it quits. I didnt ejaculate and the condom didnt break. We attemped this twice, again an hour after the first time and the same thing happened(i didnt ejaculate and the condom didnt break). So whats the risk here that she is pregnant? I kno theres really no chance I am just a really paranoid person so i just need closure. And a nother thing is as soon as i went to put it in her i just completely lost interest and i really did want to do it. Im not the type who is paranoid at the moment just after it happens so i dont kno what was wrong with me. Thanks.
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DarkChild717
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Did you use the same condom for both attempts?

As long as a condom was used for all genital contact and it did not have any major malfuctions (i.e. break), then there isn't a pregnancy risk.

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Crimson923
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We used a different condom for each attempt and there was no malfunction with either condom.
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