Okay. I've been talking to this girl for some time now and we get along well. She calls and we talked about life, her family, school and stuff like that. When we were talking on the phone she aked me why I'm so nice and said I was cute, and I said she was cute (she really it). Today she asked me out.
I'm 19 (just turned 19) and shes like, 13. I'm finished school and all.... but I still like her. What should I do?
She's 13. You're in very different stages of your lives right now. Has she even made it to high school yet?
Personally, i think you'll find the age difference is a bit much right now. What do her parents think? I know my parents would've never allowed me to date anyone at 13 years old, nevermind a 19 year old man. You're an adult. She is far from it.
I think you need to seriously take a look at this and ask yourself if you really think it's a good idea. What do your friends think? Do your parents know?
(Also, keep in mind that the age of consent in Canada is 14. Any kind of sexual relationship with this girl could land you in jail.)
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