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i'm a 20 years old virgin and i'm thinking about having sex but my biggest fears is reactions, what if he ask me to changed positions and i'm on top and i don't ride him the right way
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Really, there is no "right way" to have sex, as long as it works for both of you.

So the important thing is to be able to communicate, and feel comfortable with your partner. It's not a performance on which you're going to be judged.

We have a couple of articles you should read:

Ready or Not? The Readiness Checklist

First Intercourse 101

"Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world's grief. Do justly, now. Love mercy, now. Walk humbly, now. You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it." - the Talmud

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