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ok, right now im with a girl and there is a possiblity of sex happening, but she is a virgin and i am not. i have a copule questions that i would feel alot better if i knew the answers.

Are there any big things to avoid during her first time? i usualy switch position at least 4 times during sex to keep it interesting, would that still be a good idea?

and this question is unrelated, but how big do you have to be to use magnum condoms? is 7 1/2-8 1/8 (its somewhere in that area) big enough?

thank you once again on your advice

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I can stretch a regular sized condom over my forearm. And I'm a boxer. In other words, it's not really about length, but about girth. If you feel of an average girth, stick to regular condoms.

Condoms need to fit snugly, so it's always better to guess smaller rather than larger. If it doubt, buy a handful of different condoms for yourself and see which you prefer.

What your particular partner may or may not like is something she can and should tell you during sex: you can initiate this communication by simply asking her questions like this.

Per readiness and some women's issues with intercourse, having a look at these is likely to be of help:
Yield for Pleasure (or, why chilling out with intercourse can improve your sex life)
From OW! to Wow: Identify the causes of Painful Vaginal Sex and Kick the Pain to the Curb
Ready or Not? The Readiness Checklist
First Intercourse 101
Sexual Response and Orgasm: A User's Guide

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