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I'm a virgin and I've never had sex before, however my boyfriend isn't one and we've been going out for 10 months and we are really in love and emotionally stable. Yesterday night, we wanted to have sex but I was petrified since I have a really really low pain threshold. He was very very gentle with me as he knew it was my first time and as he tried coming into me, I felt more pain than I've ever felt before, however, he never came into me probably because I was a bit too tense and petrified and we eventually didn't get around to having sex. However, I did feel him come into me a litte and he even said that he might have pushed into me. And after about 5 minutes, when I went into the toilet, I noticed I was bleeding and that it was a little painful for me too walk. What are the chances that I broke my hymen? and therefore lost my virginity? And also, is it true that after breaking your hymen, when you have sex it will be less painful. xxx
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We've got a pack of articles you should read first. After you're done going over them, come back with further questions

  • Ready or Not? The Readiness Checklist
  • First Intercourse 101
  • Safe, Sound & Sexy - A Safer Sex How-To
  • Sexual Response and Orgasm - A User's Guide
  • Magical Cups & Bloody Brides (About Virginity)

    LA County STD Hotline 1.800.758.0880
    Toll free STD and clinic information, and condoms sent to your door for Los Angeles County residents.
    1 in 3 sexually active people will be exposed to a STD by the time they turn 24.

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