Donate Now

Topic Closed  Topic Closed
my profile | directory login | search | faq | forum home

This topic has been transferred to this forum: Sex Basics and Sexual Health.     next oldest topic   next newest topic
» Scarleteen Boards: 2000 - 2014 (Archive) » EXPERT ADVICE » Ask Scarleteen » very confused

Author Topic: very confused
Member # 8040

Icon 13 posted      Profile for StiNgeR123     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post 
im just lost i tryed to get my head around it but it just aint happening.
when im with a chick i dont get turned on unless she actually starts stroking or touching me, like the kissing and rolling around doesnt turn me on, is that ok? and wheneva i am erect, its really hard for me to put a condom on because my penis loses interest nearly straight away! it is really frustrating becuz it makes me look like a loser! i duno what to do! i practisse and same problem *sigh* it is sooo annoying i cant stand it!
and i just got a new gf, who is everything that is better then me and i dont want this to happen when we get to that stage, i just duno what to do :|

Posts: 8 | From: Newcastle | Registered: May 2002  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator
Scarleteen Volunteer
Member # 226

Icon 1 posted      Profile for Dzuunmod     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post 
Penises almost never work exactly like you want them to, isn't that the way?

I've had this problem, too, but not to the extent that you describe. How old are you? How sexually experienced are you? These things can be important factors. If you haven't had much experience, it could just be nerves causing you to go soft.

Have you read this article about erectile dysfunction yet?

"Like a bat out of hell, time has come for you!"
-Ballad of a Comeback Kid, The New Pornographers

Posts: 1515 | From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada | Registered: Jun 2000  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator

   Open Topic   Feature Topic   Move Topic   Delete Topic next oldest topic   next newest topic
 - Printer-friendly view of this topic
Hop To:

Contact Us | Get the Whole Story! Go Home to SCARLETEEN: Sex Ed for the Real World | Privacy Statement

Copyright 1998, 2014 Heather Corinna/Scarleteen Providing comprehensive sex education online to teens and young adults worldwide since 1998

Information on this site is provided for educational purposes. It is not meant to and cannot substitute for advice or care provided by an in-person medical professional. The information contained herein is not meant to be used to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease, or for prescribing any medication. You should always consult your own healthcare provider if you have a health problem or medical condition.

Powered by UBB.classic™ 6.7.3

Search Scarleteen