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im very aware of my sexuality, wut i like and dislike sexually,and wut i am and arent comfortable w/ doing (bcuz of masturbation) but i have a ? id like answered....i masturbate once in a while and sometimes i can insert a finger w/ no problem and it feels good and doesnt bother me...yet at other times it hurts 2 insert a finger(therefore i stop) even at times when i am arroused. im just wondering, is this normal? or is there sumthin wrong w/ me? just curious.... thanx in advance!
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Masturbation doesn't have to be about penetration. For many women, it NEVER is, it's about clitoral or other types of stimulation (some folks masturbate without much or any genital stimulus at all, for that matter).

So, one WAY of masturbating may not always feel good or right, or may never, for that matter. And with penetration in particular, if you aren't highly aroused, it's not likely to feel good, period.

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