I have been seeing this guy for about three months now. He is my best frined. He is also a great guy and im happy however I have also been seeing this older guy whom is my dads frined. I have fallin in love with him. I don't know what to do. I am sixteen and he is twenty one. My parents wouldn't aprove because he is older and they think more mature. I am, however, mature for my age. I don't know if I should continue the secret relationship with the guy whom I am in love with, or break it off and stay with my best friend. I know the smart thing to do, but my heart tells me otherwise. Can I get some help
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You say you're mature, and yet you're dating two guys, and neither of them knows about the other? I think you've got a lot of your answer right there. Choosing a relationship that would upset your parents, hurt someone who really cares about you, and not even necessarily work out seems like a pretty foolish move to me.
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