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ok i tried 2 post this earlier but i do think i had a subject so i dont kno if it went though or not. ok so here it is again
uhm i have had sex 3 times in a period one mouth. that was two mouths ago 2day and no body except me and the guy kno i have had sex. i kno i should tell some one. but i`ve lied 2 everyone cause i was affraid the would be mad. i dont what 2 do. should i tell and have every loss all trust in me or tell ad have no1 2 turn 2 after?


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first off, stop lying. that's not the responsible way to handle a sexual relationship.

secondly, are you on any medications? have you started on birth control?

thirdly, are you having heavy period-type bleeding? or is it relatively light?

getting your period three times in one month is not healthy or normal. you will need to talk to your gynecologist. if you don't have one yet, go find one (or hit up Planned Parenthood if you're worried about confidentiality ). your gynecologist can prescribe you treatements for your irregular period. Most likely, it's going to be birth control (which will come in handly since you're sexually active now).

And you will need to tell your doctor that you are sexually active. Don't worry, it's safe and okay to do that. And your doctor will not get mad.

And please, if you haven't done so, make sure to use condoms every time you have sex. The pill is not perfect.

"In God we trust. All others must pay cash..." faw-choon kookie say.

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