I can't even fit two of my fingers inside my vagina without it hurting like crazy. Now I'm beginning to think of first-time sex as a painful ordeal I will have to get through, rather than a joyous occasion. Is there a way I can intervene to break my hymen and increase the size of my vagina in preparation for the event??
...sorry I'm asking lots of questions in a row, but this is my first time on a message board like this, and all the questions I've ever had are coming out at once! Thanks
Posts: 5 | From: Merredin, Western Australia | Registered: Jul 2002
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You might want to check out our article on First Intercourse 101 to find out more about how to get ready for having first-time sex.
The vagina is a very stretchy muscular tube; it can expand to allow a baby's head to pass through it -- so really, if you are prepared for sex, relaxed and aroused, and using adequate lube, you will be able to achieve penetration without too much difficulty.
And please note Erin said stretchy - it will return to its original condition once you are not longer aroused/giving birth. You cannot permanently alter the size of your vagina.
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