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Me and my friend were messing around when he started to come inside of me he was almost halfway in when he asked was i sure i wanted to do this. I told him no and he took it out. Am i still a virgin? Why do I feel so confused about us now? I feel as if I dislike him but I can't stop thinking about him and what happend. He's been acting different ever since then. Please help me figure it out. I really want him in my life.
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Alright, step one is some required reading...
Ready or Not? The Readiness Checklist
First Intercourse 101
Magical Cups & Bloody Brides

As far as whether or not you're a virgin...well that's entirely based on how you define virginity. Frankly, does it really matter? Virginity is defined differently by everybody, and it has a different significance for everybody. You have to decide how you feel about it.

Secondly, you didn't mention whether or not you and your partner used a condom during your encounter. If you didn't, then you have a pregnancy risk and an STD risk for both yourself and your partner. Read this for more on the pregnancy risk for penis/vagina intercourse.

Thirdly, it sounds like maybe you just weren't ready for sex, honey. And there's nothing wrong with that. But you are going to have to talk to your partner about what happened and your feelings about it. Read those articles I linked you to, there's alot of really good stuff in them. Sex changes things and you need to be ready for that if you're going to choose to do it. Talk to your partner.

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