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I recentaly told a girl i've known as a friend i love her, shes a realy good friend, and we tell each other everything. I'm in an awkward situation, because im 99% sure she would feel uncomfortable going out with me because of my past experiance, i think she thinks i would want to have sex with her, but i love her, and i'm happy with whatever she's happy with, i'm ertain she dosn't want sex, i'm fine with kissing, even hugging, but i can't tell her this without sounding like an up myself fool! i dont know how i can approach her on it ack!

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blaze_of_glory, welcome to the boards.

Let me tell you, you do not sound like an up yourself fool in what you just said- I suggest that with a couple of slight adaptions, you put what you've written here into a letter for her. Communication is really important in any relationship, and it is extremely important when you're talking about having (or not having) sex. Your girlfriend will probably really appreciate the respect that you are showing her- both in respecting her wishes, and respecting her enough to communicate with her in a responsible way.

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