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Ok another strange question ... Ive heard that most women orgasm easier when their partner is giving them oral sex . My bf gives me manual sex and Oral , and I never orgasmed with him . I can bring myself to orgasm , when Im alone , but I dont understand why I cant with him . Everything he does is incredible , even better than what I can do , but still , nothing . Sometimes he asks me , and I hate disapointing him when I say no . His poor wrists !!!! lol . My question is , is there any way for me to come any faster???? or at all with him ?????


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Lisa D
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Actually, all women are quite different in what brings them to orgasm...some women prefer intercourse to oral or manual sex, while other women might like manual or oral sex better.

You can't hurry orgasms; in fact, if you just relax and concentrate on enjoying yourself, you might be surprised how easily they sneak up on you...Also, tell your boyfriend how you like to be stimulated; show him the tricks you use on yourself, and take time to experiment. Also, remember that sex without orgasm can be wonderfully fulfilling and enjoyable, as well.

Hope this helps!

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This question is also answered at the FAQ at the top of every forum page:
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