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k the prob is ive been unoffically seein this guy meaning were not offically going out because wen we discussed it i was just out of a realtionship+neither of us were ready.
We practically act like a couple neways, but the prob is he emailed me the other day boastin about how this girl he got off with on the weekend was yummy!
I no i have no rights to go mad or nething but he really hurt my feelings the way he like boasted about it to not sure how i was ment to react do i have a right to feel hurt cause were not going out?i dont really no wats going on with us or weather its worth the risk going out with him things like this just put me off more!what do u think?

please help tig x

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You have to understand that you DO have a right to your feelings ... And it's completely valid. No one here can tell you how to feel or tell you that you have no right to feel the way that you do.

If it makes you uncomfortable when he talks about stuff like that, tell him. I think it's a bit unfair of him to put you in that position, knowing you have feelings for him (he does know that, right?) ... Communication is super important. Sit down and talk to him about it ... He won't know that he hurt you, otherwise, and then you both might be able to come to an agreement about where this relationship is going.

I'm gonna send this on over to Relationships, where you can get more than one response

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