i took the advice from one of the experts i said that every time i have sex with my boyfriend it hurts so much i either want to scream or do scream..but he says i am just tight and i need to get worked in... but it doesnt get better... she suggested using like a lubricant the next time and we did to day i was completly relaxed and he was goin slow and everything but i still want to scream and ended up doin so... what is wrong with me....
Posts: 20 | From: kingston,on,canada | Registered: Apr 2002
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nothing is wrong with you. the ugly truth is, sometimes the first few tries is painful for some girls. that's right, it takes a few tries before everything falls into place, so to speak.
the best you can do is what the other advo told you: lube, relax, extra foreplay, etc. unfortunately, now that you're probably expecting pain, it's going to be a whole lot harder to relax. or you could give up for a few weeks (let yourself heal up -- you've probably experienced some tearing and abrasion) and try again later.
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Posts: 12677 | From: Los Angeles, CA ... somewhere off the 10 | Registered: Jul 2000
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Have you been to a gynocologist yet? If you haven't, you should. If intercourse is that painful, that's definately something you should let your gyn know so that they can make sure everything is physically ok with you. (Besides, if you're sexually active, you should most definately be getting regular gyn exams)
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