Hey, guess what! We've had a lot of posts on this topic, and there's one I'd really like you to read. To quote the lovely Kitten Goddess:
Labia are beautiful and perfect and normal exactly the way they are. The images we may see in magazines or movies of labia are not necessarily true of every woman, nor do they need to be.
Your labia are just like your fingers, your ears, your nose, or any other part of your body; everyone has a different shape or size or appearance fo rthose, and people accept that as part of normal human variation. Would you cut your fingers off because you don't like your hands? The same goes for your labia. Anyone who's goign to be touching your body should be doing so with respect, and if they're going to be grossed out, they should be shown the door as soon as possible.
check out http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Forum1/HTML/001337.html and learn more about loving your labia.