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One day after i jerked off my boyfriend i was telling my friend about it and she told me i messed up while in doing it b/c im suppose to go fast and up and down and use lotion and all that nonsense is there a certain way ur suppose to jerk a guy off and do u have to use lotion?
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There's no handbook or anything that's going to tell you how to perform the perfect 'handjob' for every single guy ... b/c everyone is different. Maybe your friends partner likes using lotion and maybe yours doesn't. You won't know unless you ask him.

Next time around, why not ask him what he likes and what he doesn't like? That's the only way you'll know. If talking about it is weird, ask him to lead your hand ... To make your hand do it as his would. Works the same way.

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Hunnie, communication is the key here. Talk things out with your boyfriend. If you guys cant talk about what you do sexually, maybe you arent ready for that kind of commitment.

We do not give sexual techinque here. The reason for that is because you have to talk it out, and see what you both like.

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However we do recommend the use of lube adn latex gloves or a condom to prevent STD/STI risks.

You may want to take a look at these articles:
A Quickie STD/STI Risk Assessment
Safe, Sound & Sexy A Safer Sex How-To
A Simple Condom Primer

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