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Ok, weird question...
Im a twenty Year old girl whos engaged to an awesome guy. Our sex life is awesome. But...Most of the time wile we are having sex, i can only orgasm if Im fantacizing about another female doing sexual things to me, and the same when im alone masturbating, i pretend my hands are another females hands. I know i dont want a relationship w a female cause ive tried it once, and i let her do sexual things to me, but i didnt want to touch her. So, i ended it. Im so confused, what does all these feelings mean? Am I Bisexual? Please Help!


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How you definite your sexual orientation is really up to you -- there's no checklist of things you have to do or be willing to do in order to be heterosexual or bisexual or homosexual. And it's quite normal for people to fantasize about things they wouldn't want to do in real life.

Have you checked out The Bees and...the Bees - A Homosexuality and Bisexuality Primer yet? I'd also suggest that you check out the Orientation and Identity forum of our boards, because we've had lots of questions like this in the past. Here's a link to one rather lengthy topic on the subject:


Kythryne Aisling
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"The only unnatural sexual act is that which you cannot perform."
-- Alfred Kinsey

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