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I don't know if this is the correct place to ask this question - if it's not, tell me where to post it - but here goes nothing. I am 19, female and currently in college. I've had two relationships with guys that didn't work out because the guys wanted to have much more serious relationships than I felt I was ready for. I'm currently single and have never had sex with either gender. I'm sure I'm attracted to guys, but earlier this year I began to wonder if I'm attracted to girls also. I have this really close female friend and there has been times when I'm sure I love her more than a friend. There's other evidence of an attraction to girls. But I'm wondering if this is more of a security issue - I was a late bloomer and didn't date until college and since I'm having trouble liking straight guys b/c I'm afraid of hurting their feelings if they like me more than I like them. Any girl I've thought I could like has been straight, so there's no danger of them liking me back. Do you think this is just late questioning of my sexuality, a security issuje or am I just having trouble accepting the fact I'm bi? (And thanks for letting me ramble on and ask general questions^^)
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Hey Juri, welcome to the boards!!

We have two postboards in "Gaydar" that you're able to post in and ask these kinds of questions ... As this board is mainly for crisis'.

I found a great thread about bisexuality here

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