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my boyfriend is having a hard time giving me an orgasm. whatever he does i don't get a orgasm. what should i do? it gets him mad that he can't do it. the thing is that i can easly give myself an orgasm but whe nit comes to him there is a problem. i would really like some advice. i just don't know what to do.
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Lady Moonlight
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Maybe you could introduce him to our article on Orgasm and Sexual Response.

Beyond that, communicate with him. You've had years of experience with your body, and he's just learning it. No wonder he's not as good at manipulating it as you are! Let him know what you like, but mostly just relax and enjoy being together. An orgasm (or giving your partner one) is not the be-all and end-all of sexual experience, however much it may seem so at times.

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