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well i am scared! i dont know what it means!! well my boyfriend was fingering me and all the sudden i was bleeding really bad! it hurt kind of but not a lot! but it was really scarey because A LOT of blood came out and it was still going until today (a day later) and im really scared...what could this mean?? please help !!
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Well, chances are that while he was performing manual sex on you, he might have made one or more small tears in your vaginal tissue. The bleeding should probably stop fairly quickly, but you'll have to watch out for vaginal infections now since he might have had bacteria or something under his nails. You should definately see a doctor if the bleeding continues.

There's a really easy way to prevent this. Have him wear latex gloves while performing manual sex, and add in some nice water-based, condom-safe lube (like Astroglide or KY). It feels good, and lets you not have to worry about getting nasty infections. Get yourself and your boyfriend tested for STD's while you're at it, that's always a good idea if you're going to have sexual contact at all!

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[This message has been edited by KittenGoddess (edited 10-23-2001).]

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