I have been with guys my whole life and I recently started to date a girl. Who I have fallen head over heals for. Lately the kissing has turned into more but we havent went into each other pants yet. I am scared about what to do. HELP! Please.
Posts: 1 | From: Madison, Wis | Registered: Mar 2012
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Regardless of the gender of your partner, there's no one "right" way to do anything sexually. Everyone likes different things and responds differently, so really the best - and only - thing you can do is to keep communicating, keep talking about what feels good and what doesn't, and experiment. Exploring sex with a new partner is always going to be a bit of a trial-and-error process while you learn each other's likes and dislikes, and that's okay.
Sex with a new partner is a bit like dancing with a new partner, really. Even if you've danced with tons of people before, it takes some time to learn how your two unique bodies work together. So, give yourselves some time to figure each other out.
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