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Chad Watkinson
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I am 29 years old, and I don't know whether I am just masterbating or pretending to be a male. I hump things like a male would using a sock until I reach an orgasm, and I am very discontented being a woman, yet I am very uncomfortable cross-dressing for social reasons. I get jealous when I see guys going into men's rooms, and think I should be, and yet I enjoy an intimate relationship with my male partner, and rarely orgasm, until I told him that I might have gender issues, being as I am envious of the male sex organ, and want my own. Now there are no secrets, and sex is better.

So to summarize, is this just a fantasy and masterbation, or gender issues?

Chad Watkinson

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I'm hearing an either/or here when I'm more likely seeing a both.

In other words, while certainly, many women who are comfortable being women masturbate in the way you describe -- which yes, is masturbating -- I'm also hearing you express some gender discomfort which is seperate from your masturbation.

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I too tend to do this. In description, I pretend to take on the role of the male in the bedroom, but I am by myself, and the bed, or a couple of pillows is my female counterpart that I am making out with. Furthermore, I can just visualize myself with a penis penetrating my girlfriend, and just that thought along makes me peak sexually. I love thinking about being a male.


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