One of my boyfriend's best friends happens to be very friendly towards me. Every time I'm around him, he hugs me and acts extremely friendly...more-so than his other friends' girlfriends. Anyway,during a christmas party last year he told my boyfriend (in front of me) "I'm so jealous, you have a perfect girlfriend". My boyfriend hasn't mentioned whether it bothers him. Anyway, since that christmas party I've started to have sexual dreams/thoughts/fantasies about this guy, which I would never act on. The fact that I know I will never do anything sexual with my boyfriend's friend makes me want him even more. Under the circumstances mentioned above, is this normal? I'm kind of freaking out, because I may have a crush on him. I know if the tables were turned, I'd be heartbroken. Any advice?
-------------------- Gia Posts: 33 | From: los angeles, ca | Registered: Apr 2010
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This question needs to be moved by a moderator to the correct forum.
But anyway, yes, it's perfectly normal to have fantasies which you'd never act on about people who you know are attracted to you. Having someone compliment you is a turn-on, and knowing that nothing will happen makes for safe fantasy material.
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