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stiversgurl
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I LOST MY VIRGINITY AT 14 YEARS OLD! HE WAS 17 MY FIRST TIME WAS NOT ALL THAT WELL I MEAN I DIDNT UM AND IT HURT WE HE TRIED TO PUT IT IN !!! SO HE TOLD ME T OGET ON TOP SO I DID IT DIDNT HURT!! IS THAT NORMAL!!!???? ALSO I HAD MIXED FEELINGS AFTERWARDS!!!!!

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kitka
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The age of consent is 16 in Ohio... so to begin with, what he did is against the law.

It's normal for some women to experience less pain if they get on top, because they can control the speed/depth of penetration.

It's also normal to have mixed feelings after first time sex, BUT if you're in a healthy relationship and the sex was entirely consentual, those mixed feelings will generally disappear within a few weeks.

It's NOT normal if you didn't want to have sex and someone convinced, forced, or tricked you into doing it. He's a near-adult, and he's having sex with you while you're a minor. No matter how nice he is, he should know that it's illegal. If you're in a relationship with him right now, it's the best thing for you to get out of it.

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Djuna
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It's also very normal not to have an orgasm the first time you have sex. The media make people think that the first time should be amazing, and that if it's not there's something wrong. Honestly, first-time sex tends not to be the best time ever. [Wink]
Here's an article by Miz Scarlet herself on the subject:
http://www.scarleteen.com/sexuality/ftmemoir.html

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stiversgurl
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thanks soooooo much you guyz

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logic_grrl
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By the way, this really isn't related to Safer Sex & Birth Control, so I'm going to move it to Sex Basics for you.

If you take care to post your questions in forums where they fit, it makes it a lot more likely that you'll get helpful answers.

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