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ikwatchua
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Ok, me and my girlfriend have been talking and we are wondering more and more about anal sex. I have always wanted to try it and we are not really sure how to do it so she doesn't get hurt. Would baby oil be ok? Or should I find and buy some ky jelly sometime? Thanks in advance.
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Karybu
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Do NOT use baby oil. Anything oil-based degrades latex, which causes broken condoms, and those are never good. Pick a water-based or silicon-based lube (they're latex safe) and wear a condom. The condom is essential because there are bacteria in the rectum that don't belong anywhere else in the body - condom use prevents infection.

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IS this the girlfriend from Russia? as you may want to wait until you sort out your relationship and feelings when she gets back,before moving on to another sexual act. Also discuss it properly in person with her the risks and if its what you *both* want to ensure it is safe for both and not painful for her.
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Yes it is, she was wanting to do it when she comse back and we did sort everything out, which I am really happy about just I didn't know how to go along with this without hurting her.
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maybe wait til she gets home so u can discuss it together, perhaps you will need some time to just get used to each other again, rather then jumping straight into bed and a new sexual territory.

There is plenty of time when she gets back to usa to begin, and maybe build up to it.

Karybu's advice is right, the rest is up to you two, usual thing like being relaxed and the like first.

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