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I am a virgin, and about a week ago my boyfriend and I got incredibly horny and ended up naked making out on his bed...and thats as far as we got because he didnt have a condom with him. I understand this was very dumb of me because we where almost unable to control ourselves and we might of ended up having unprotected sex. Im am 14 and I strongly believe that I'm emotionally ready to have sex, but reading other topics *made me have some second thoughts:P* i noticed some one had writted, and it read, "do not have any direct contact between private parts". He did not enter me in anyway (him and me where only touching...) and it wasn't like he climaxed or anything. Just this post made me concerned with the DO NOT. Will somebody please clear this up for me. Also, me and him discussed sex and we agreed to wait, except we really enjoyed what happened and plan to do it again. Is this wise since it might end up getting carried away?
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For a pregnancy risk to exist, ejaculate or pre-ejaculate has to come into direct contact with your vulva. From what you've described, your risk here is minimal.

In the future, if this is something that may happen again, buy yourselves some condoms, and have your boyfriend wear a condom for any sexual activity.

You may also want to check out the following articles:

Ready or Not? The Readiness Checklist
Safe, Sound & Sexy : A Safer Sex How-To

"Another world is not only possible, she is on her way. On a quiet day, I can hear her breathing." -Arundhati Roy

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Im sorry, but i just relized that i really shouldnt be posting in this topic, sorry bout that, but please still reply.
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? There is no reason you cannot post here. It is, after all, your thread, and you are comepletely entitled to ask questions, clarify, etc. So no problems here.

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