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jenny2468
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Not so much as a problem but more of an interest in what your views are...

my boyfriend (like pretty much every guy) enjoys watching porn. However, he can't stand the stuff he describes as 'tacky', the staged/scripted stuff where the people don't have genuine, intimate, loving sex. Instead he watches videos posted by couple that are genuine sexual encounters with their loved ones. he showed me a few and they are definately more natural and there's not an airbrushed surgically enhanced body in sight.

now im not going to stop him watching this as to be honest i think its pretty harmless but can occasionally make me feel a little less wanted as it doesnt have the same fantasy element that most porn out there has.
so what do u think? would u mind if your partner was watching real sex?

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My boyfriend loves porn, I'm sort of lukewarm on it. I can enjoy the realistic stuff; the fake boobs-fake tan-fake orgasm stuff does NOT turn me on at all. He watches more realistic stuff now, and honestly it's helped our sex life. We occasionally watch it together, and it actually gets me going instead of completely shutting down my sex drive for the night. Anyway, the point of all of this is that realistic porn IS a fantasy. If the typical fare doesn't turn on your boyfriend, it's not something that he's going to fantasize about or along with, you know what I mean?
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jenny2468
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yeah, to be honest its improved our sex life too and can be a bit of an ice breaker when it comes to talking about fantasies, new ideas, etc.
i would recommend the more 'realistic' stuff to people who want to try new things with their partners, its much less intimidating than the 'fake' stuff.
i think its sad that its so much more acceptable for men to enjoy porn than women.

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