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TheSassy2005
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Hi, I have a quick question about fingering. Is it normal for your vagina to be kinda wider or looser after being fingered by a guy? The reason I'm asking is because now i noticed i can stick my finger into my vagina and the lines around it with no problem but i was never able to do that before. Is there a reason for this or am i just over-analyzing this.

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Sam W
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Hi there,

Having experienced a particular sexual activity is not going to make the vagina looser. I am going to borrow this quote from Heather:
"When a woman is very aroused, her vaginal opening and canal will loosen.....Too, our fertility cycles can also cause some changes, so it's normal for women to be more dry, less open, less easy to enter during some phases of each cycle, and less so at other times.

How "loose" or "tight" your vagina is isn't about how many sexual partners you've had. It's about muscle tone (and muscles aren't made looser by using them, which you probably already know from your own arms or legs) and about your arousal and relaxation. The vagina of a woman who has had twenty sexual partners could resemble the vagina of a woman who has had but one if both women were of similar age, similar muscle tone, similar genetics, similar relaxation or arousal."

Does that make sense?

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TheSassy2005
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Hi, so what you're saying is that my vagina being loosened has nothing to do with being fingered? It simply has to do with being aroused or "turned on?"

Thanks for clearing this up for me [Smile]

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Sam W
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Yes, it is most likely related to your level of arousal/relaxation and/or where you are in your cycle
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