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Why do boys always pull out so quickly after they have cum? Like, does sex become uncomfortable or something for them once they've come? And is that why they pull out pretty much straight after?
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Well, I wouldn't say that there's something all boys do all the time. In other words, some boys might pull out after orgasm and ejaculation, but that doesn't mean that everyone does.

The reasons someone might do that might also vary. Many people with penises do find that they feel extra sensitive after orgasm, just as many people with vulvas do. I'd not say though that that explains why every person who withdraws after orgasm and ejaculation does it.

In other words, if a given person withdraws after orgasm and ejaculation, one would have to ask them why they do so to know for sure.

Does this help?


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Also, if a condom is being used, then that condom needs to be disposed of and replaced, if necessary, after it's been ejaculated in, otherwise there's a risk of it failing. So, any time a condom is being used, that explains pulling out almost immediately after ejaculation all by itself.

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Mostly my guy just lays on top of me until it shrinks and slips out. It maybe in there two or three of minutes longer.
I like it like that too as we are still linked while we get our breath back and the wonderful sensations we have had when we have cum subside.
Ask him to hang around a bit longer - I am sure you will both enjoy that time together too.

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