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qazspaz
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im a 14 year old girl and for the past 2 weeks i've been really horny and have really wanted to have sex with someone. i do masterbate often but it just isn't cutting it anymore. i don't have a boyfriend but i think this one guy likes me and i like him. what should i do? I've been wanting it so bad that sometimes i cant sleep at night. i know this is normal but is there anything i can do to blow off any sexual steam?
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Robin Lee
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Hi Qazspaz and welcome to Scarleteen,

I know that intense sexual feelings like you're describing can feel uncomfortable.

You ask what you can do to blow off sexual steam. What do you do to blow off steam in general--when you're feeling physically restless, for example?

There's a lot more to being ready for partnered sex than horniness alone. Take a look at this readiness checklist;

Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist

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lovely16
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Hey im 16 and i recently lost my virginity and my advice to u if u havent already done it is to wait a couple more years due to u are a little young nd u will regret doing it at a young age later on. But u can listen to different music or watch different types of tv shows to get that urge to go away a little more. But if u do choose to do it do not forget to use a condom nd make sure the person u do it with is not trying to use u. Well that's all i got to say i hope i helped [Smile]
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lovely16
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Hey im 16 and i recently lost my virginity and my advice to u if u havent already done it is to wait a couple more years due to u are a little young nd u will regret doing it at a young age later on. But u can listen to different music or watch different types of tv shows to get that urge to go away a little more. But if u do choose to do it do not forget to use a condom nd make sure the person u do it with is not trying to use u. Well that's all i got to say i hope i helped [Smile]
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Meggsy
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At 14 - be sure and be careful.
That is THE one time that you will remember all your life and you cant get it back afterwards.
I was as young as you are so I wont say dont - just be sure - I have not regretted my decision but many more have.
Think hard about that one.

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